What is going on inside me is what is going on outside me! Christmas is a time of internal inventory taking for me. I want to have the Christ spirit of unconditional love and giving. But before I know it, I'm worrying about, if I am going to please everyone with their gift, money, is the house clean enough, why would my sister do that?etc... Before you know it, I'm am out of my unconditional love place and in frustration mode. Today I will love myself unconditionally first. Maybe that will help me be unconditional love to my circle of friends and family during this time when we celebrate Spirit Birth.