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This is the fusion of being a fan of football and now at 43, playing professional tackle football with the Dallas Diamonds, 4-time World Champions. We travel together through my journey of being an overweight, suburban wife and mom to a seasoned professional athlete. My goals include encouraging and impacting you to live a clean and active life and to never utter the words, 'I can't'!

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Archive for March, 2009
 Keep your commitment to staying fit!

In month three of this commitment to change your lifestyle, you face a big temptation to indulge. It’s called Spring Break. Usually this means eat hearty, drink plenty, and engage in frivolous behavior. Basically, it is known as a time to take a ‘break’ and go nuts!

And, now that the ‘newness’ of your goal has worn off, Spring Break arrives at a time when you are vulnerable. This year is different, however. You made a commitment! And, even though it’s Spring Break, it does not mean you neglect or shelf this lifestyle change. I know it does not come easy. I’ve walked this road. You can walk it to!!

May I strongly encourage you to not allow the calendar to dictate whether you break from this new normal or not. Remember a commitment is just that; it’s a commitment no matter what are doing and no matter where you are located.

Hopefully, you are recognizing that cleaning + exercise = healthy and content life. If you find yourself among the group who dropped off the goal to eat clean and get physically fit, then seize the opportunity of Spring Break to jump back on track. Be an example to your family and friends of changing habits and developing a sustainable lifestyle.

This Spring Break whether you are staying in-town or headed off somewhere exciting, the benefits of exercise and clean eating go with you. Model this behavior for your family and friends. Try these low-cost activities over the Spring Break week:

  • Ride your bikes in the neighborhood: set a goal to get to the closest pond or playground

 

  • Actually use the basketball and hoop you bought

 

  • Take the soccer and football to the park and practice different run and passing drills

 

  • Create an obstacle course in your front yard, beach, or local park  using balls, mats, play tunnels, benches, slides, swings, pull up bars, etc…: go ahead and time each other and try to get a ‘personal best’ time

 

  • Take a hike a local park or arboretum: bring a lunch and enjoy the outdoors

 

  • Limit TV and computer game time to a few hours per week

 

  • Use the stairs at any public venue, show, mall, or department store

 

  • Park as far away as possible when you go to the malls, movies, or stores

 

  • Stop every two hours while traveling by car: run around the car or the parking lot perimeter and do some stretching before continuing your journey

 

  • Swim, play tennis, walk the golf course, and utilize the physical activities available to you at your vacation destination.

 

The benefits of clean eating on Spring Break include no extra pounds when you return or when the week concludes. Remember, getting and staying fit is 80 percent nutrition, 10 percent training and 10 percent genetic.

Eating clean is possible! Even on Spring Break, you CAN choose to not indulge and certainly refrain from over-indulging. Simply give yourself permission to enjoy one meal or even just one ‘cheat’ item during the week. Activate these principles with each meal you fix or dine out:

  • Eat six small meals each day
  • Eat about every 2.5 to 3 hours
  • Combine a lean protein and complex carbohydrate at each meal
  • Drink two to three liters of water each day
  • Refrain from any alcoholic, soda, or sugar laden fruit drinks
  • Consume fresh fruits and veggies...mostly vegtables!
  • Eat whole grains, not refined, processed, or chemically enhanced foods
  • Consume lean protein from fish, poultry, wild game, soy products, and legumes
  • Eat healthy fats every day from fish, healthy oils like Olive, nuts, seeds, and grains
  • Never miss a meal, especially breakfast!
  • Control portion sizes...share meals you get when dining out or immediately cut them in half and ask for a doggie bag

I promise you, it is better to hit the pillow at night knowing you did not indulge and remained loyal to your commitment than over eating and being a slug to in-activity. Your body, soul, mind, and spirit will thank you. You CAN do this!!

Motivation Tip:

Find someone you admire and put up a picture of them some where you will see it everyday. For me, I have a picture of Dara Torres, the 41-year-old Olympic Swimmer, who capture several medals in the 2008 Olympic games! Her work ethic, dedication to her sport, and her body at her age all motivate me to keep eating clean and working hard daily for my goals in football.

Fun Football Fact:

It was not until the mid-1920's when football players first began to use shoulder pads, knee, hip, and thigh pads, and spiked shoes! Dallas

Diamonds season tickets are now on sale...check out our website for more information: www.dallasdiamondsfootball.com  

Stay inspired,

Kip #45

Posted by Kip Watson, MA, LPC, ACE-CPT on Mar 9, 2009 12:48 PM
Shocked at what he saw kneeling on the sideline, my DB Coach wonder what to say to me as I cried for the first time at practice. I know, you can just hear it, “There’s no crying in football!” He did not say that, but I was thinking it as I desperately fought back the wave forming in my eyes. It surfaced, however, and the stream of tears flowed as I shared with him my humiliation of my performance that day. Add frustration, few home challenges, and a dose of doubt into the mix and, well, I could not keep the tears away.

 

I recalled all the off-season hard work I put in to improve and how, at least on this night, he could not tell! That’s frustrating! And, at this practice, a number of our season Veterans made their return. I did not expect to see these players. Some who said they retired, decided to play again. They love the game! I understand that. Yet, their return changed the dynamic of practice. That happens all the time on professional teams. Players come and go and you have to adjust.

 

Wanting to maintain the good feelings about my progress so far in this pre-season and the unity established with our new Rookies, I failed to adjust to the new changes when the Vets returned. That mental lapse impacted my practice. That’s not good!

 

I also let my age and lack of experience increase my doubt. I began to question whether I could really play this violent game at 42. Could I secure a spot in front of younger Veterans with more experience, “what in the world am I thinking…what am I doing?...they don’t believe in me and maybe neither do I?”

 

Doubt exploded! And, in football, your finished if doubt takes hold. Teammate Rachel May said to me, “When I see doubt in your eyes, I know I have you. That’s fear.” And, as the wise theologian Bono once said in one of his songs, “We are wounded in fear, injured in doubt”. That doubt got me on my heels and knocked flat on my back by Rachel and Danilynn Welniak, a teammate half my age. So, yep, with my head and my heart hurt, I succumbed to the tears. Ugh!

 

After practice, I spoke with Coach revealing all this to him. He encouraged me to stick with it and keep working hard. My trainer stopped our session the next day sensing my doubt and discouragement. He reminded me what I said when I first started football, “If my sole job is to make the Vets better, than that is what I’m here to do.” He said to remember the fun of football. And, in a recent text message he noted all the people I inspire with my story, “I love you for who you are and admire you for what you have accomplished. People watch you, see you, and learn from you that anything is possible.” 

 

Jen Welter, a Diamonds All-Pro LB and Safety said to me “I believe in you. I would take you on any team I was ever on.” Rookie Ann Marie Shambaugh gave me an incredible encouragement card. Her words made me cry the good tears felt when loved.

 

GREAT LEARNING COMES IN ADVERSITY

 

I’ve learned from this. Old tapes of a lack of confidence still get triggered with change. Change reveals what we are made of: am I the type of person to press on and pursue excellence or give up and take the easy way out?

 

Honestly, I don’t know what it is like to not doubt when facing a huge challenge. I commit to persevere while I grow in confidence as I learn and get better. Thus, I’ve discovered three key components of excellent coaching essential for athletes like me: practical technique, repetition, and encouragement. These three elements provide a winning environment.

 

It inspires me to know coaches, players, friends believe in me and/or the potential they see. Silence and neglect result in dismay and lack of commitment. Words of encouragement keep the passion and drive alive! Come on, don’t we all need to be lifted up on occasion?

 

So, in turn, even in my doubt, I began calling on other players to lift them up. I figured they needed it too! I found serving and focusing on others kept me off myself!

 

When facing the heat of a challenge, I also remember my identity does not lie in my performance but it is secure in my faith. Whether I succeed for fail as an impact player, my identity remains the same. Who knows, maybe my defining moment comes in the face of such adversity.

 

Motivational Tip: Call someone today who you know needs to be lifted up to persevere through adversity, change, or challenge. Let them know how much you believe in them, what he or she means to you, and commit to checking in periodically to see how you can help with their goals.

 

Nutritional Tip: When you are invited over to someone’s house for dinner, go ahead and call them ahead of time to find out the menu. If it does not fit with your commitment to clean eating, then eat a light nutritious snack ahead of time and take small portions of the meal. Or, if you know the hostess, let them know you may not eat certain items given your commitment to a new lifestyle. Believe it or not, but most people are willing to support you. You just have to communicate about your new lifestyle.

 

Fitness Tip: Limit TV and computer gaming time to no more than a few hours per week. Encourage outside activity whether it’s playing basketball, hiking, biking, or simply walking as a friends or with your family.

 

Fun Football Fact: The first football games in America were teams made up of 25 players on each side. Can you visualize that…50 players on the field at one time!

 

Stay inspired,Kip #45

 

 

Dallas Diamonds start the season Saturday, April 11. For ticket information visit www.dallasdiamondsfootball.com  

 

Posted by Kip Watson, MA, LPC, ACE-CPT on Mar 3, 2009 11:32 AM

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