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Dear Ms. McVeigh,

The room mom in my class emailed all of the parents and said she would be glad to get a gift for the teacher on behalf of the class.  She asked for suggestions.  I gave her one, (that she did not take) and in the mean time, a few other moms decided to help with the gift.  Without going into details, it has turned into a huge production, and all of the parents and children have spent a lot of time with the “craft” part of the gift.  On top of that, an email has now gone out telling us what each family owes for all of the supplies, framing the gift, etc…  The amount that was in my mind when she sent out the initial email was $10.00 per family.  The amount is a lot more than $10.00, and I am not judging anyone’s financial situation, but I am wondering if asking for this amount of money is perhaps presumptuous, especially in these tough economic times.  I have heard any other parents complain, but I am wondering if I should confront this mother and say something?  Should I just pay her what I think is fair?


Anonymous

 

Dear Anonymous,

 

I would weigh all of the consequences before I confront this mother since she is at your school, and possibly in your neighborhood.

 

I had a similar situation when I was throwing a party for a friend.  The girl I was hosting it with was not a friend of mine, and I knew I would not have to see her too many times again, so I had no problem confronting her. We both had different expectations on what the party should entail and cost.  I told her the amount of money that I was comfortable spending.  I kept on telling her that beyond that, she had to do on her own.  She ended up cornering me in her kitchen at the party, and demanded that I write her a check for more money. I refused, and walked out.

 

When I face this type of situation that involves people in my neighborhood or my school district, I think twice about a large confrontation.  More than likely you are going to be around this mother for the next 10 plus years, and you need to ask yourself is it worth it to make things uncomfortable with her.  I have a relative who does not get along with her next door neighbor, and she is constantly thrown into situations with her at school, and it is stressful for her.

 

If you feel like you have to say something to your room mom in principle, choose your words correctly and cautiously.  If you can let it go, pay her the money, and bite the bullet this time.  Going forward, if anyone asks you for any kind of contribution or participation in anything, get it spelled out, and tell the person up front the amount of time and/or money that you are willing to give to the cause.

 

 

Posted by Elise M. McVeigh on Nov 20, 2009 12:41 PM
Dear Mrs. McVeigh,

I have a hard time of remembering people’s names.  After I meet someone, I must not pay attention to his or her name.  Is this a problem that you hear about a lot, and do you have any suggestions on how to do better at remembering people’s names? It is just so embarrassing meeting someone, and then seeing them, and not be able to call them by name, or introduce them to someone else.

T.M.

 

Dear T.M.,

This is a very common problem that 99% of the population seems to have.  Here are some tricks.  When you are introduced to someone, try to make a conscious effort to hear his name.  Once you do, really study his face in your mind, and then think of someone with the same name.  A famous person typically works for me.  For example, if I meet someone named Kelly, I may think of Kelly Clarkson, and get the image of the person I just met in my mind, and then an image of Kelly Clarkson in my mind.  I have even said out loud to people, “Your name is Kelly?  I will remember that by thinking of Kelly Clarkson.”  Saying something out loud is also a helpful way to remember something.

 

A way to help people remember your name is to give them some kind of name association.  This is especially helpful if you have a different name such as “Elise.” When the television show Family Ties was popular years ago, the mom’s character was named “Elise Keaton.”  When I was introduced to people, if they struggled with my name, I would say, “Elise, like Elise Keaton on Family Ties.” That seemed to help people to at least hear my name the first time.

 

A trick that can help you (and the other person) out when you see someone you know but can not remember his name, is to put out your hand to shake his hand and remind him of your name.  For example, I would say, “Hi. Elise McVeigh, good to see you again.”  He should then pick up on this, and shake my hand and tell me his name again.  If you are out with a friend or family member, and someone you have met before walks up to you, etiquette says you need to introduce them to one another.  If you can not remember the approaching person’s name, say to him “Have you met my friend Sally Smith?”  The other person should then know to shake Sally Smith’s hand, and give his name.  “Hi Sally.  I am Don Jones.  It is nice to meet you.”

 

Another common issue that makes people forget names is when they have to introduce two people to one another.  People get very nervous, and sometimes even forget the name of one of their closest friends.  If you get nervous and blank out on someone’s name, you can say to the approaching person something like, “Hi. How are you?”  Then turn to your friend and say, “Have you two ever met?”  The two people will then take the liberty to introduce themselves to one another.  If you are with a friend or spouse who is talking to someone who walks up to him, and he has not introduced you, he probably can not remember the person’s name.  Be quick to introduce yourself to the person, and you will save your spouse or friend some embarrassment.

 

I hope these tips help you with the very common problem of not remembering someone’s name.  I know it is not only challenging, but can be uncomfortable or embarrassing.  Try these tricks next time you forget someone’s name and at least one of them should work for you.

Posted by Elise M. McVeigh on Oct 23, 2009 1:58 PM

This past weekend, I was privileged to participate in the Frisco Arts Festival as a performer, service provider, and festival-goer.  I have to say this is the best I’ve experienced out of a very long chain of great Frisco events.  From fireworks to concerts to storytelling, the city seems to have done it all—but this one takes the prize.

Over a hundred artists—painters, sculptors, photographers—showed up to sell their wares for three wonderful days in October (the 16th, 17th, and 18th).  Newman Village provided the venue and major sponsorship, while the weather cooperated as if God himself wanted to smile on the event.  Moderate temperatures and beautiful sunshine lasted from Friday afternoon until Sunday evening.

Performers from the Collin County Songwriters Association and others took the main stage and cranked out one great musical experience after another.  The big acts (in my opinion) were the 8-Tracks and Urban Renewal.  They both actually managed to take the crowd to a higher energy level, after a string of great performances by acoustic bands, dancers, and performing songwriters.  I personally got kick off the show Saturday morning while stage manager Michael Schaefer launched a video webcast live to the world (thanks Michael).

I provided sound and support services for the community stage, sponsored by the Music Conservatory of Texas.  We had a blast with groups from Neighborhood Arts and Music School (NAMS), School of Rock, elementary and middle-school music groups, fabulous young dancers from several academies, and Frisco Area Children’s Theater. 

Three days will wear anyone out, so I have to give credit to my right-hand man—logistics expert, Blane Cox.  Blane has some stage experience, so he was invaluable in anticipating my every need.  We changed acts, stage and mic configurations virtually every half hour for the entire three-day operation.  Phil Harman popped in on Sunday to add his fire-power, and we had the fastest pack-up that I’ve ever experienced with this much equipment.  We also received outstanding support from Steve South, now the reddest guy in Frisco (a little sun there, Steve) who was the entertainment coordinator for the festival.

Behind the scenes there was the normal panic that is standard for an event like this.  But excellent communication systems ensured that the participants did not feel the stress.  To the audience, the vibe was something like a Disney park.  You felt safe, the surroundings were beautiful, the music was wonderful, and you couldn’t drop a piece of trash without it being picked up within a few minutes.

I wish I could name all of the organizers, volunteers, and sponsors.  The list would take another two blogs.  Suffice to commend everyone on an excellent job. And thank you so much! 

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on Oct 19, 2009 10:59 PM

Anna Thomas and Matt Gaskins acoustic music. October 8, 2009 from 7pm to 10pm, Terilli’s, 2815 Greenville Ave, Dallas.  Http://www.terillis.com/, phone 214-827-3993.   Come check us out at the very cool Terilli’s in Dallas. Great food and a great atmosphere. They will be playing lots of cool acoustic covers and originals.

 

Daddy Rocks.  October 8, 2009 at 9pm to October 9, 2009 at 1am, Eddies' Sports Bar on Centerville Rd., 142 East Centerville, Garland, Texas…AND October 9, 2009 at 9pm to October 10, 2009 at 1am, Humperdinks in Addison, Texas, 3820 Beltline Rd. Addison, Texas.  Great food ,good cold/hot drinks and of course, Daddy Rocks' Hot brand of Classic Rock Covers and Texas Rockin' Blues Originals. 

 

Ryan Michael Galloway, classic rock and originals—with Faith sitting in last set (and a potential appearance by bluesman, Steve Anderson).  October 10, 2009 from 7pm to 11pm, Lone Star Wine Cellars, 103 E. Virginia Street, McKinney, Texas, phone 972-547-9463.  No cover. A very intimate room with locally produced vintages and a wine-savvy staff.

 

Guitar Dave.  October 11, 2009 from 7pm to 9pm, Tolbert's Restaurant, 423 South Main Street, Grapevine, http://www.tolbertsrestaurant.com/.  Sunday evening food, drinks, and tunes. Come celebrate a Cowboys victory with Dave.

 

Frisco Arts Festival.  October 16, 2009 at 5:30pm to October 18, 2009 at 4pm, Newman Village, 3200 Eldorado Parkway, Frisco, Texas 75034, http://www.friscoartsfestival.org/.  Three days of fun, music, food; and presentations from community arts, music (such as CCSA performers), and dance groups along with over one hundred professional artists from around the world presenting works for you to browse through and purchase.  Advance discount admission is $6 at Market Street, gate admission is $7 for adults, $5 for seniors and children 18 and under are free.  Open to the public. ATM and concessions available on-site.  All proceeds benefit local non profit arts groups.

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on Oct 7, 2009 8:44 PM

CCSA Song Critique Circle
Time: October 6, 2009 from 7pm to 8:30pm
Location: Neighborhood Arts and Music School (NAMS) and Anderson Guitar Gallery
Street: 8102 Stonebrook Pkwy
City/Town: Frisco, TX 75034
Website or Map: http://www.namsfrisco.com
Phone: 214-436-4000

Organized By: Anderson Guitar Gallery, NAMS, and CCSA

We sit and sing songs to each other. For those who want it, we offer impressions, improvements and observations. All pretty low key and non-threatening. No one has died yet, and most have walked away to become just a little better at the craft.  Member or not, please join us!

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Anna Thomas and Matt Gaskins
Time: October 8, 2009 from 7pm to 10pm
Location: Terilli’s
Street: 2815 Greenville Ave
City/Town: Dallas
Website or Map: http://www.terillis.com/
Phone: 214-827-3993

Anna Thomas and Matt Gaskins acoustic music. Come check them out at the very cool Terilli’s in Dallas. Great food and a great atmosphere. They will be playing lots of cool acoustic covers and originals!

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Ryan Michael Galloway at Lone Star Wine Cellars
Time: October 10, 2009 from 7pm to 11pm
Location: Lone Star Wine Cellars
Street: 103 E. Virginia Street
City/Town: McKinney, Texas
Phone: 972-547-9463

No cover. A very intimate room with locally produced vintages and a wine-savvy staff. Classic rock to take you back in time, and timeless originals to take you to a new and wonderful place.

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Dave Corely at Tolbert’s
Time: October 11, 2009 from 7pm to 9pm
Location: Tolbert's Restaurant
Street: 423 South Main Street
City/Town: Grapevine
Website or Map: http://www.tolbertsrestaurant.com

Sunday evening food, drinks, and tunes. Come celebrate a Cowboys victory w/ Dave.

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on Sep 30, 2009 9:59 PM

I’ve been following the development of North Texas performing songwriter, Anna Thomas, for almost a year now.  She has just released her first EP, Splash of Red, a locally produced venture.  I have to say, I’m completely impressed.

Usually when you listen to a small regional release, you find yourself having to make a lot of excuses for shortcomings in the music, production and arrangement.  Not so on this one, where the recording and production contain both elegant simplicity and intelligent complexity—all in just the right measure and at just the right time.  To sweeten the deal, there isn’t a lame cut on the whole release.  The big leaguers don’t even do that most of the time.

I had a feeling come over me when I first listened to this CD, and I can remember the exact moment I last had the same feeling. It was when I put Steely Dan’s Aja on the turntable for the first time and listened to it through some pricey headphones.  The texture was perfect; the music engaging, snarky and just challenging enough (I mean all of that in a good way), with little musical surprises that made you feel like the artist was letting you in on something, if you would just listen.  Splash of Red hit me just like that.

Anna must be an old soul.  I haven’t told you yet that she is merely 13 years old.  That means she’s just getting started, which excites me no end.  If this is how she’s starting her career, my God, she will be a joy to watch if she decides to continue to develop her art. 

The lyrics are very sophisticated for anyone’s age.  You could compare her sound to Coby Calais, but she does some more interesting turns in her voice that I haven’t heard anywhere else, and her advanced musical and lyrical tendencies surpass the pop star category.  The teens may get pulled into it, but I see her demographic as older and a bit more discerning than even, say, the average light jazz listener.  This may limit Ms. Thomas’ following a bit, but mark my word, if she sticks with it her following will be rabid for her sound and her future releases.

Finally, some credit goes to a few people helping Anna perfect her sound and her recordings.  This is not to take away one ounce of her talent, but every picture needs a great frame—and she has more than one.  Front and center is Matthew Gaskins, a remarkable musician with a Masters Degree out of North Texas University.  That’s impressive enough, but Mr. Gaskins is more phenomenon than mere musician.  He has not only mastered a number of instruments—including his voice—but understands the holistic arc of a production and its arrangement.  He collaborated with Ms. Thomas on the arrangements of all the songs, and produced Little Red and My Circle. 

The songs Bleached, Trace of Light, and Break Apart were produced by Salim Nourallah, one of Mr. Gaskins colleagues.  Mr. Nouralla’s production style on all of the instruments and vocals appears to be, “If it doesn’t need it [an effect], then don’t use it.”  The dry, minimalist result is stunning, but only because Ms. Thomas is good enough to pull it off.  I’ve been encouraged to try the same approach on my own material, and the idea scares me to death!  Maybe after hearing Splash of Red, I’ll get inspired to try it myself.

Behind the scenes is another remarkable person, Ms. Thomas’ father, Scott Thomas.  Scott is a wonderfully flashy bassist who was generous enough to play on my last EP, Rock the Big House Down.  If Mr. Thomas is a “stage dad,” he’s a very gentle one.  He’s been smart enough to stay out of the way of his daughter and her collaborators, only recommending ideas in the most gentle way, and letting the art develop like a mushroom instead of a project.

If there is room for improvement, it will be in Ms. Thomas live delivery.  Having said that, a recent performance demonstrated that she is on an improving trend as we speak.  It has nothing to do with the quality of her singing, which is confident and convincing the majority of the time. It more has to do with the “selling” of her songs, which starts from the minute you begin to introduce the number and follows through to the final notes.  It’s all headed in the right direction though, and one of the more interesting developments has been watching her weave her very dry, understated humor into her act.  I think once people “get” her and she works into a really comfortable zone, that we are going to be completely blown away.  That’s as opposed to mostly blown away, which is where we are now.

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on May 31, 2009 10:22 PM

For all the latest events that feature CCSA members, visit http://ccsongwriters.ning.com/events.   To see an outstanding selection of CCSA member videos, visit http://ccsongwriters.ning.com/video.  The site and the association now claim 72 active members and the number is growing almost daily.

Anna Thomas will appear at Café Bohemia with NAMS founder, Matthew Gaskins, on Saturday, May 23.  The duo will appear from 6 to 8 PM, and the location is 2320 Los Rios Boulevard, Suite 10 in Plano.

See Steve Anderson with Scott Berry and Friends on Saturday, May 23, from 7 to 9, at It’s a Grind Coffeehouse at Lebanon and Dallas North Tollway. Steve specializes in acoustic blues, and is the owner/operator of Anderson Guitar Gallery with his wife Jennifer.

Daddy Rocks, a classic blues/rock power trio, appears at Joe’s Crab Shack in Mesquite on Sunday, May 24, from 6 to 9.  The address is 1340 N. Peachtree Rd., and you may contact the venue at 972-329-7111.

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on May 21, 2009 10:14 PM

The Collin County Songwriters Association teams up once again with the City of Frisco’s Parks and Recreation Department for Rockin’ the Park ’09 on Saturday, April 18th.  This year’s Rockin’ the Park will be held at Warren Sports Complex on Eldorado Parkway, west of Preston Road, and will center around the park’s pavilion.  Other supporting organizations include Subzero Sound (providing audio engineering), Anderson Guitar Gallery, and Neighborhood Arts and Music School, and the Frisco Soccer Association.

The event starts with pre-show activities—open mic featuring CCSA members, songwriting seminar and demonstrations—at 12:30 until 3:45.  The “Big Show” starts at 4:30, featuring Tredway and Friends, Rory Don Moore, The Foundation, U4IX (pronounced Euphorics) and The 8-Tracks playing until 9:30.  The music runs the gamut from Texana/Americana, to blues, to jazz, to contemporary teen, to classic rock.  These acts present some of the best of what North Texas has to offer, and the family-friendly show is sure to appeal to a wide audience.

The CCSA has also joined forces with the Frisco Soccer Association to collect food at the park that day for Frisco Family Services’ food bank.  Participants in either the sports or concert events are encouraged to bring canned food to contribute.  Feel free to bring food and drinks (no alcohol) to enjoy during the concert.

For more information about the CCSA, visit www.ccsongwriters.org, or the organization’s social networking site, www.ccsongwriters.ning.com. View the video trailer for the concert at http://ccsongwriters.ning.com/video/rockin-the-park-09-tv.  

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on Apr 7, 2009 10:53 PM

Neighborhood Arts and Music School (NAMS) opened in January 5 of 2009, becoming a near-instant success as they progressed into the first quarter of the year—an impressive feat in a deep world-wide recession.  If you know NAMS’ owners, Kelly Thomas and Matthew Gaskins, you probably wouldn’t be surprised.

Matt is an amazing musician, able to play a number of instruments at a level that impresses even his seasoned peers.  He holds a Bachelors of Science in Performance, Percussion and Voice from Cameron University in Lawton, Oklahoma and in 2008 he earned his Masters of Music in Jazz Studies from the University of North Texas, one of the country’s most renown music schools.   

Kelly earned a BBA in Marketing from the University of Memphis, with a minor in Music—a potent combination in any part of the music business.  A classically trained flutist, Kelly also plays alto sax, and piano, and writes music and lyrics.  As a former Air Force wife, she lived in 8 cities in 12 years, finding a way to continue to participate in music everywhere she lived, whether in community bands, church bands or teaching private lessons.

It is unusual to find accomplished musicians who not only have a passion for playing, but an equal passion for teaching.  I asked Matt and Kelly what led them to open a music school at such a dangerous time.

“There is a simple joy in sharing music and what’s been given to me—passing it on to others,” confided Matt.  “I always thought that teaching was for those who couldn’t do. But in earning my Masters, I started to dream of having a school.  I found there was so much to learn in teaching.  Once I saw the results of the performances of my students, I was smitten.  It brought joy to my life.”

For Kelly’s part, she says “I love being able to provide an environment where students can learn to love music.  Music is such an amazing and powerful gift and is something people can continue participating in their entire lifetime.”

As the concept developed, they knew they wanted to build a school that embraced the performance viewpoint—a place for students to perform and create.  They succeeded beyond everyone’s dreams, except perhaps their own.  To complete the picture, they quickly hired a number of accomplished teachers, finding those who could instill a sense of fun in the learning environment.

The school facility itself is a beautiful space, with a modern 50s and 60s retro feel that invokes The Jetsons.  They currently have six lesson rooms, a built in recording studio, a small recital hall, and a large screen TV and Wii for the waiting area.

As a matter of full disclosure, I’ll reveal that I’ve had the pleasure of teaching fundamental piano and beginning to advanced guitar at NAMS for the last few months.  I have a mentoring streak a mile wide, and I can tell you that it is an absolute joy having the opportunity to work for and with like-minded musician-mentors.

NAMS represents another great choice out of a small but impressive array of music teaching facilities in Frisco.  If you are looking for music instruction for yourself or your children, I recommend that you consider NAMS.

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on Apr 6, 2009 12:40 PM

The Collin County Songwriters Association has been looking for a mechanism to allow members to sign up online. We might have found the coolest thing since sliced bread. We've turned to ning.com to create our own social networking site. Don’t worry, you don’t have to “work it” so much, unless you really want to. You can set even set your profile to private, but at least we can maintain a list of members and an easy way to contact you.

It acts much like Facebook, but the real key is it creates on online presence for our members—just like our membership page has in the past. It’s just that now we won’t have to work so hard to make it happen.  As a plus we get a ton of social networking functionality.

In the future, when someone wants to be a CCSA member, they simply go to our site http://www.ccsongwriters.ning.com, sign up for a .ning account, and answer the same questions that are in our membership form. If they don’t want a particular piece of information recorded, they don’t have to answer the question or can choose not to show it on their profile.

Just like all the social networks, we can put up pictures, videos and all kinds of stuff to see. If networking is part of why you want to join CCSA, this could be the jackpot.

Remember, CCSA is still free.  We meet for song critiques and support every first Tuesday of the month at Anderson Guitar Gallery located on Frisco's main street. We have tons of performance opportunities and seminars throughout the year.

Ryan Michael Galloway, Chairman
972-841-0226
http://www.GigsterClinics.com
ryan@ryanrocks.com


 

Posted by Ryan Michael Galloway on Mar 1, 2009 1:32 PM
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